A TRUE FRIEND!!!

There are no words of thanks that you can say to a friend when they go out of there way to help you at a time of lose and tragedy. But how do you even begin to thank numerous friends that come together to make you feel better, again there are no words. I have often wondered what it takes to be a true friend to somebody, well know I now. You are there for them no matter what, you take time out of your busy schedule to send them flowers or a meal or a gift or a phone call or a night out on the town just so they can stop thinking about what is going on in there life. You put your life on hold for hours, days because you know your friend is hurting and you want to do everything you can to make that hurt go away. You hold onto there deepest secrets that they had to tell you because they trusted you and only you, and mostly you love them unconditionally no matter what. I am so grateful and blessed that I have so many TRUE FRIENDS in my life, more then I thought, that love me and will do anything for me. This world is becoming so corrupt and evil and I began to think that friendship isn't even a real word anymore, as we see friends cheat with friends spouses, even sisters and brothers with spouses, share secrets that were asked to be kept secrets, I have even heard of friends stealing money from friends, or worse killing one another over money or relationship. I guess the term friend is being used to losely. From now on when I call someone my friend I am going to think is this person really my friend or are they just an acquaintance, would I do anything for this person, do I hope only good things for this person, or are they someone I just say hello to when I see them. I think it is healthy to separate your friends from your acquaintances that was one reason I got rid of my facebook account to many people I did not even know that knew everything about me, it is also a reason I am making my blog private. The whole world does not need to know what is going on in my life just my friends and family (which are also my friends). This post is starting to get to long but I just wanted to say to all of my friends who got me through this week thank you, and to those friends that do not know what is happening I will let you know in my next post and I know you would have done the same thing even if you are far away I know a letter, e-mail or flowers would have been sent to me, and I thank you all for your love and support.

Kalinda